Actually icing your vagina is probably too much, but a cool internal compress can help with swelling and pain.
There was no way his dick was fitting in me.
It got to the point where I couldn't open my mouth wide enough to get his dick out, so I had to pry my mouth open with my fingers.
As for the aftermath, get a small! That was a big mistake.
The partner on the receiving end of the stimulation lies back on the bed while their partner does all the work.